When we focus on purity in the church family it looks like this;
1) I do whatever I can to help you get closer to God. I gently walk along side you on your journey towards righteousness. Righteous living is where you will experience the greatest fulfillment. Purity is the shortest path to joy and surest path to divine success.
2) To help you I must die to myself. I have to sacrifice my ambition, arrogance, and agendas. I have to give my life so you can live yours. Notice, this, in turn, also moves me closer to God. Doing the loving thing for you is also doing the loving thing for myself.
And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds… Hebrews 10:24